You might
want to hurry up with the contemplation, Romme, since you just changed your phero signal to a very dominant profile.
You might want to follow it up with a little something in your actions. Maybe you could try just a "mini version"
and see if you like it? What have you got to lose?
She's still keeping the dynamic as "you want something from
me/I'm too tired because I do all the work" and you're playing into it. Every time you do that, you solidify it in
her mind that that is how it's always gonna be. Is it? When she says something with "that flavor", a red flag could
maybe go off in your head, and you could try to find something opposite of that to say and do. Maybe she wants a
little more "alpha behavior" from you, but wants you to figure it out. Maybe it's mostly the housework resentment
thing. I suggested ways to deal with both of those, and would love to see you try the plan! I'd also add a little
romance in there, but minus expecting any sex.
If you always do what you've always done, you'll probably
always get what you've always gotten. People are fighting and dying for you over in Iraq, buddy, so you can have
the kind of family life you want! Come on, bro! You can do it! It seems like that was what you wanted. Dude, you're
getting free advice from a family therapist here! You can make a decision to take control over your own life,
actions and sexuality! One day at a time! Always try using your free will first! You never know until you
try.
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