Use pheromones in this situation? Adverse reaction potential?

[Rusty2000]

Hi, I'd like to hear your thoughts on the following idea. Here's some background (I'll

try be brief):

First off, I'm male.
-was in a very serious relationship with girlfriend
-girlfriend moved to

the other side of the country for a few months
-we broke up toward the end of those few months
-girlfriend is now

back in the same city
-girlfriend is showing signs of interest and misses me
-i want to give it another shot



Now, the pheromones:

I'm thinking of using pheromones to help in re-establishing the connection between us. I

want to make her (well, both of us) feel comfortable, relaxed, and open. SOE seems like a great candidate for

this--the 'nol seems like it could be great for breaking down those 'awkward barriers' and the 'rone could help

a bit too by saying, 'I'm here for you; I'll take care of you.' Now, if 'mones helped, that's great. If their

effect is totally neutral, no harm done. I worry, however, that they could have an adverse effect. She feels

strongly for me. But this is not the beginning of a brand new relationship--she's confused, scared, anxious--could

the 'mones possibly exacerbate these emotions? I've seen her a few times, and while we certainly connected, it was

sometimes hard to just be casual and talk about ordinary, trivial stuff...all the drama from the past can make it

hard to just be our regular selves with each other. I hope that makes sense and you're able to understand what I

want to achieve: not for her to fall head over heels for me, but rather to open up a comfortable channel of

communicaton.

Thank you to anyone for your input. I just stumbled across this forum in the last week and have

read a lot...a ton of (and suprising) info on the site. I know that the olfactory/emotional link is extremely

complex, so I really don't know the answer to this question. Again, thanks in advance for any replies/advice, I

really appreciate it.