Ok, SOE works

[chromeboy]

It won't bring

you much positive attention that's for sure. The thing I notice about SOE--and most other 'mone products--is you

reap what you sow. That is, if you stand in the corner and do nothing, nothing happens. However, the more effort you

extend to socialize and be attractive, the more success you have. Sure, the same can be said of said behavior

without pheromones. However, pheromones enhance or amp you up, so thing happen a little faster and more intently,

but do not add something that is not already there. So passive or negative behavior is still rewarded in-kind.

Pheromones will not give you a free ride.

Yep, I know the principle. That is why I always engage fully

in conversations, interact and try to be as "social" as possible, without acting like a jerk or entertainer.

But

it is also this very reason why I am worried about SOE not working for me. I never apply SOE and sit there quietly.

That makes me a bit sad, because if a popular and "safe" phermone like SOE doesn't work for me, I wonder if

phermones don't work for me altogether.

[jvkohl]

... if a popular

and "safe" phermone like SOE doesn't work for me, I wonder if phermones don't work for me

altogether.

SoE should enhance your ability to attract women. Is there anything positive about you

that women have either seemed to notice, or commented on? The same features/characteristics should draw even more

attention with pheromone-enhancement.

For example, I developed my biceps to be larger than is typical for a

man who is my size. Even without mones, women have demonstrated interest in casual touching of my upper arms. With

the mones, it's less casual touch, and more of a caress--taking the "move" from casual to sexual. Of course there

is a difference with the setting: work (casual), social scene/dancing (caress). Last week, because I am higher

status in the work environment, I never asked a co-worker to dance. At the beginning of the last dance of the

evening, she asked me. Starting from my shoulders and moving slowly down the length of my arms, she got a better

feel for me than casual touch had allowed at work--before putting both my arms around her -- below the waist.



If there's nothing about you that women respond to positively, it may be time to do something about that.

If you already have the positives--demonstrate them a bit more. Learning more about human sexuality is a good idea

-- just in case the conversation turns that direction, or you can introduce the topic. "What do you think about

human pheromones" might still be an original introductory question.

JVK

[chromeboy]

Hello Dr.Kohl,

Many thanks

for the explanation.

I would say my sense of humor is my biggest plus. Girls love it; but not in a romantic way,

I have to admit. Rather, I am the "funniest guy" which they hang out most of the time, but at the end of the day, it

is the rugby team boys that get their attention. (most girls I hang out are 21-25)

Which is precisely why I have

been working out regularly. I have lost most of the fat and built some muscle, but weirdly for England (highest

obesity rating in Europe) in this part of the country, people are more fit and competition is a bit high both for

guys and girls.

So although my social skills are my biggest plus, I don't feel that SOE amps it up further

(speaking for myself).

[jvkohl]

So although

my social skills are my biggest plus, I don't feel that SOE amps it up further (speaking for myself).

Good advice (below)--forget the competition. Just being your pheromone-enhanced self will get

you further than thinking about why your not getting what you want.

Make them a potentially

useful tool but not a big deal to be constantly worried about.

JVK