Don\'t you think that there is a middle ground, or are there only two types of women in the world? A woman can
either be a \"good girl\" or a \"slut\" in your opinion?
Don\'t you think that there is a middle ground, or are there only two types of women in the world? A woman can
either be a \"good girl\" or a \"slut\" in your opinion?
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Men,
Which kind of woman do you prefer? Nice or
Trash?
What kind of man do you consider yourself? Nice or Trash?
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I prefer nice women, but seem to attract women somewhere in between nice and trashy - at least
those are the ones that will date me - think I scare the nice ones
[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]. But I\'m a nice guy for the most part but I think a little too
alpha sometimes so.... Most of my friends however prefer \"nice\" women, at least for a long-term relationship.
Why do you ask?
proteus, I pretty much know that men like the nice women but it is a great subject to discuss.
Sometimes people get so caught up in trash talk they forget that in reality most people do prefer the nice people of
the world. Which is ironic because when some nice people get around trashy people the nice people will start
talking trash talk. Which makes the nice appear trashy. And who in their right mind would want to be trashy.
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Good to know you are a nice guy proteus.
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[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] Stay nice and you
will find a nice woman.
I
think it\'s funny how you ignore my posts. I can tell you right off the bat there are not two kinds of women in
the world. I am a nice, sexy, confident, wild, honest, fun, loyal, sexual woman. And guess what? It works. I can get
the shy guys, the wild guys and all those guys in between......
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I think it\'s funny how you ignore my posts. I
can tell you right off the bat there are not two kinds of women in the world. I am a nice, sexy, confident, wild,
honest, fun, loyal, sexual woman. And guess what? It works. I can get the shy guys, the wild guys and all those guys
in between......
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Not to mention the guys here on L-S. You forgot
about us Elana! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
You tell her Girl!
<singing> \"Yoouuuu\'re ev\'ry woman...\"
Holmes
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<singing> \"Yoouuuu\'re ev\'ry
woman...\"
Holmes
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Bring your brother along for the
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I\'ll try. But the lure of the Cheetos might be too strong.
BTW, Brazilian jeans rule!
Holmes
Elan, I did not mean to offend you by not replying to your every message. I am sure I have replied to
your post before. I am not the vindictive kind of person. I will be more conscience of making sure you feel
included in my discussions.
As for the two different kinds of people I did not mean there are literally two kinds
of people. I really mean is that all people lean more to one side or the other. Either toward being nice or being
trashy. Nice people have moments of trashy thoughts words and feelings. As well as trashy people can have moments
of nice thoughts words and feelings.
I will try to make my messages more simple so everyone can understand them
from now on.
Are you serious?
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Are you serious?
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Yea, I thought the same thing.
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Brian
Define \"trashy.\" You mean like a garbage man? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]
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Holmes
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As for the two different kinds of people I did not
mean there are literally two kinds of people. I really mean is that all people lean more to one side or the other.
Either toward being nice or being trashy. Nice people have moments of trashy thoughts words and feelings. As well as
trashy people can have moments of nice thoughts words and feelings
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You mentioned earlier that you live in a small town...how small are we talking, 100 people max? For you to even
say something like that, I would have to believe that you are either trying to be funny or you\'re just really
that clueless.
WT I
think I know what you´re getting at. By `nice or trashy´ you´re referring to the `madonna or whore´ thing right`? -
The nice wife/mother or the slag to f*ck.
Either way, like with men for us women, neither of the two is ideal, as
far as I´m concerned.
And I don´t reckon this question, if it were possible to answer, will help you get this guy
you´re after into bed. Oh well, for getting him into bed I´d go for trashy!
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CJ
I am not really sure. A \"classy woman\" is one of those things that you hear all the time, it\'s so used that
it really doesn\'t have a meaning for women at all. What is a classy woman? I think all women are classy it seems
more of a elitist term rather than something positive? A girl who doesn\'t swear or sound gross? It seems classy
has been taken so far as to mean asexual or prude? A girl who is classy to me is just simply a girl who is fun,
cool, laid back, personal, caring, sexual, similar to Elana. Any guy can have a bud, but with a woman should come a
different relationship. Opinions and all that stuff of what society binds you by should be gone in a relationship.
If a guy wants to grind his woman and she wants the same why push it away?
Again I think it is time for a
excerpt from the legendary John William Drakken, this is a bit on the trashy side, but Drakken was a genius
to say the least.
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Excerpt: 14.3
Author: John
William Drakken
London, England 1867
I must beg for your gratitude my dear friends, once again you have
joined me on another of my lavish adventures. I thus deemed and ever yearned for a change, one involving the sexual
bonding of man and woman. I shamefully so have grown tired of my respectable proper, prim Victorian wife, dare I say
the queen herself? She has morphed my once creative mind, into a stone of bordem and \"classy\" but unfulfilling
love making. It seems her lust and yearn for my penis has dwindled, what took it\'s place? It appears image, a
proper female image. Well fair lads, it appeared time to relieve myself and let my juices once again ooze and
spatter with ever panting orgasm, but I promised that with this event I would not be alone in shame.
I decided
to make a visit to a place where my stature as a respectable nobleman would not interfer with my desire to penetrate
swollen flesh. I hastened to visit the large bastardly whore\'s who worked in the Cunningham district. Trash
filled women? I am uncertain my chums, they smelled of raw sewage, their mouths seeped with the love juice of past
customers. This was not all, what had sparked my interest ever so more was the fact that they layed out spreading
their vaginas for me to examine, I must say the foul smell of menstrual cycles gone by was very arousing. I had
chosen 3 of these women, and I was in for quite the treat. Unlike my brutish wife, these women let me roam free,
every caviety upon them was open to consumption and love, we bathed within the heat and sweat, I could smell a
thousand past sexual acts upon each lady. Shy they were not. I was free to be truly myself, and heaven I was in.
These dastardly bitches were the grandest as the Germans would put it \"Flikken\" I could have fathomed.
Fair
night watchful readers, anticipate yet another day!
- Drakken
I
will only settle for the nice girl. The trashy girl is never an option - not even for a one night stand. Most of the
nice girls are taken, so I know when I get one, I\'m holding onto her. :-)
I don\'t consider myself a
\"nice\" guy because they NEVER win with women. I don\'t consider myself a \"trashy guy\" either - these guys
win initially with women, but not in the long run. Rather, I consider myself a gentleman.
Krish
In my opinion, any woman has a many sides, facets as a diamond. Men\'s taste in women vary as much. For myself, I
want a woman who is a lady in public, somebody who is comfortable in a gown at a play or in jeans hiking through the
back woods. She should be kind, smart, loyal and have a strong will. But when we are alone I want a wildcat, a woman
with a voracious appetite and willing to try anything either of us can think of. The last thing I want is a lady in
bed.
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The last thing I want is a lady in bed.
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In my opinion, any woman has a many
sides, facets as a diamond. Men\'s taste in women vary as much. For myself, I want a woman who is a lady in
public, somebody who is comfortable in a gown at a play or in jeans hiking through the back woods. She should be
kind, smart, loyal and have a strong will. But when we are alone I want a wildcat, a woman with a voracious appetite
and willing to try anything either of us can think of. The last thing I want is a lady in bed.
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Now there\'s a gem for ya!
[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Well said!
To the rest of world she\'s an Angel...only I know
that there\'s a little Devil lurking inside. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]
Elana,
Perhaps that\'s why I\'m leaning toward the \"Catholic school girl\" costume for you this Halloween.
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A woman should know how to take care of her man in the bedroom. Every woman should have these skills.
But having this knowledge don\'t make a woman either a nice person or a trashy person.
By the way, what I mean
when I say trashy is someone that will have sex with just about anyone. There is very little if any picking and
choosing who to be with. The trashy person to me is someone who will have sex with multiple people.
There is
another type of trashy I mean here too. This is the type of person that no one wants to have sex with them so they
create this fantasy world that they are something special. They often go on-line and make big brags. These are
easy to spot because they often attack others while making great clams they are such sexual beings. Another classic
telltale sign of these people is their need to talk sexually trashy. I have seen this behavior in both men and
women. A sexually healthy person has no need for any of these behaviors. There is never a need to brag or put
themselves above others or attack others because they have their real needs met.
i
prefer nice women and true and faithful to their parthner. but 1st of all, i must be that kind of person before i
expect her to be! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
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I prefer \"trashy\" women, or at the very least women who know how to have a good time.
I\'m
relatively young, work hard all day and like to play hard. I\'m not looking for the mother of my children right
now.
My friends have theorized that I am drawn to the more \"crazy\" women because I am a fairly shy and
good natured guy who sees in these women the opportunity to be ostentatious.
They are right :-)
take
care,
JDM
Wonderingthoughts- It is a very, very bad idea to put labels on people. You want to act like you have everyone
pegged, but your socializing skills here show that it is only harming you. You should stop acting so self riotous
What screams at me is that you are SO insincere. Your insincerity misleads people, and is, in effect,
a lie. You think being kind means being insincere. There had to have been something between the guy you mentioned
that supposedly offered you a wedding ring -- a lot of insincere behavior toward a guy that you had no interest in.
It is more kind to be honest and direct about your feelings. What is more kind is to have integrity? A person of
either sex that has integrity has \"class\" and gets respect. A person with integrity doesn\'t send mixed
messages. People feel secure around this type of person because there is never a question about where anyone
stands. What makes a person of either sex desirable is their ability to shine, to be who they really are. If who
you are is someone more concerned with being \"nice\" than being honest, people may like you but they won\'t
trust you.
Women with integrity of this sort who are also healthy and enjoy their bodies also enjoy sex and
make no secret of it. This does not make them \"trashy.\"
Some men are hung up on the nice girl/bad girl
thing -- and nice girls are certainly the girls that those men marry ... and then cheat on. They have affairs with
women who are upfront about their own sexuality and appreciative of men\'s sexuality. In the long run, you are
apt to find greater happiness with a woman who has a healthy enjoyment of sex and is able to express that, rather
than with one who fakes her responses to the point of misleading men into thinking that they mean something to her
when they don\'t.
It\'s shocking to hear a woman so unenlightened as to express approval of the
Madonna/Whore syndrome. Just as men are not dogs because they love sex, neither are women who love sex
\"trashy.\"
WOW! Great post and welcome to the forum. It\'s nice to see a real woman around.
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Oh my? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] Thanks a bunch Elana!
I am really starting
to enjoy this forum, I have been a silent watcher for a very long time, so I have an understanding of this
forum\'s appeal.
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To
SSG.
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Dynomite Post!
Welcome to the forum SSG. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]
Ohhhh, Brian. Stop!, You\'re embarrasing me. Too sweet.
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Just a girl doing her thing.....
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SSG....
What they said. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]
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