I'm starting to think Instant Shine/AMMO better suits me, with sometimes some A314 thrown in in very low doses for that "good catch" vibe.
However, I like that AM makes me somewhat relaxed, and relaxes women. I feel I can be very mellow with it on. I don't club much these days (I'm 42) and don't like the late nights very much. I'm wondering if this PRODUCT is somewhat incongruent with who I am.
Maybe I can describe myself to better get a feel for what you guys would think would be a congruent product? Here goes:
42, 5'8", 175 lbs, 35" waist (Looking to lose 10 lbs of fat).
First impressions are that I am somewhat not relaxed in the face, and don't smile too much when making conversation. this is somewhat due to the fact that I am bipolar.
I am collecting a paycheck everything month and work only part time hours from home but it is enough to pay the bills and save some dough too.
I invested in a electric guitar system and over the last 1.5 years have learned 6 u2 songs and recented started my own youtube channel gradually converting them over to video format.
I have business cards made that show I am an electric guitarist and it has my youtube channel and email on it ready to give out to my prey.
I am waiting till I achieve slightly more videos converted over on my youtube channel so that I can have some STATUS. Right now its all very beginning stage. Sure I know 6 complicated songs note for note and play through thousands of dollars of equipment but people who are not invited to my condo would never know. they would only see the 2 songs that have been converted.. I am waiting for this # to reach 4 before I start giving out my cards. This will take me till March 2012.
I am wondering whether i should stay somewhat mysterious and let people know I'm a guitarist and have them guess that converting over 4 songs to youtube is just part and parcel of what I do and leave it up to their imagination what Imay be (i.e. a pro guitarist, someone who plays gigs or teaches for a living). They would never know as I am not looking for a serious relationship with women and would be happy to kiss, fondle and maybe a bit more. I'm not planning on going into the sex stage now just testing the waters.
The other option is honesty. I don't have to play the rockstar. i can play the cibc employee who works out of his condo for a living and plays guitar as a hobby on youtube. I can hand out my card to show this hobby and gains womens admiration, as music is a universal language and the type I play is soothing and sometimes full of excitement. I do covers of real U2 songs note for note and I leave out the lyrics so all people watch are live guitar instrumental videos played to backing tracks of drums, bass, synth etc.
I'm hoping to build my status eventually as a guitar player once I have 8-10 video uploads and then upload free instructional lessons as well. This may help me better market myself as a guitar player down the line and give women the impression I have that rockstar vibe.
Now on to me. I feel I need some way to get shyness of approaching beautiful 20-30 year olds out of my head and the best way is to get my mind off of sex. Sure I lift weights, do cardio, and am trying to lose the last 10 lbs but that is not enough. the world is now full of 20 year old competition who are 6 feet tall and in shape. At 5'8" and 42 years of age my looks won't be enough to pull I need more.
I want to bait them into a status building approach by handing out my card. But not so in a fashion that turns me into a deparate businessman just trying to gain clients. I am indeed only trying to use my card as a point of contact after I develop some rapport with a lady, and perhaps feel that if I ask for their number I have a high chance of being rejected but if I leave them my card after smalltalk it is less threatening. Furthermore, if they take the bait and watch my videos infatuation, and pursuing has begun without me going after them. That means interest is there for them to chase ME.
I plan on only leaving my email address on the card as I don't need any stalkers. If women want to hear my music they can on youtube or in my car where I have songs recorded to CD ROM.
The point of all this blab really is one thing. Which mone signature will best complement me? I like women between 20-30, good looking, 5'2"-5'5". Mainly white (european) or brown skin (indian , spanish).
I am taking a testosterone supplement and working with weights and find I OD on A7 now so I don't use it. And it attracts all the old 40-60 year old women to me. Its really not my cup of tea.
IS/AMMO has always worked for me, but it mainly pulls blondes and very young girls like 15-23.
I need to meet people in the daytime and people I won't run into every day or those who want to see my place. I figure i would only bring them back to my place if I wanted a relationship with them. Don't need every girl I date (for security reasons one thing) knowing my address.
Any tips guys? IS/AMMO/A314 also projects a man of high status but at this time my status is low as I can't really market myself as a guitar player with only 2 videos out. i need to wait till it gets up to 4 or so so its more believable. By then I may know 8 songs 4 of which are converted to video and youtube.
Aside from mones from other sites any takers on products which would suit me here? Edge NPA is a nightmare, turns me into an ANGRY SOB. I even look it. I OD too easily with that much none.
Cheers
HM
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