It sounds like he likes you, but
he's being restrained because of the work situation.
Out of the blue, I would have no reason to doubt his
honesty. If he says he has a great time, and you look at him with that look you women give us and his body language
seems to back it up, I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. Women as a whole are much more perceptive about body
language than we are, so I'm sure you can give him a good look and tell if he's being truthful.
If you're
serious about him, I'd sit him down one day and mention the following:
1. You sought him out.
2. Nobility is
nice, but women don't get all giggly over a man's nobility.
3. You can have a good work relationship even with
a personal relationship on the side (but only if you truly believe this to be true)
4. He has no reason to worry
about HR things, again, you came to him, it's not a ploy to get a harassment suit, it's because you genuinely like
him.
As far as mones go, maybe SOE/W? I'm no expert on it.
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