I have a friend who have been with a girl for two years
and suddenly she wouldn't let him smoke so he did it secretly.. I thought he was a puss and she a stupid bitch.. I
would NEVER let a girl control me in that way.. I would say I'm gonna do what I wanna and if you don't like it
then find someone else to be around because this is the way I am.. And keep telling yourself "you're worth much
much better" because then she will never decide over you because you can find someone else who cares more if she
doesn't like something about you.. Because there will be someone out there who will love every detail about you and
let you be you.. And it's the same with my work and my friends.. I always tell them straight what I think about
them and what they say.. And if they cross the line I can find someone else to be around till they come and say
they're wrong.. And if not - then they're not true friends and not worth it or you time..
But you also have to be
able to see when you're wrong yourself but still.. You have things you know.. This is what I WANT and will not
compromise about it.. And these things (like I can't take people lie to me - then they're like thin air to me) you
have to know what you want and always stick to them.. And then there's other things you would like but you can bend
if they don't always go that way (fx. I appreciate when people show up to the scheduled time when we have an
appointment but I can live with it if they come a little to late)..
But alway remember just to be yourself and be
true to yourself.. Then you will always have people around you that will treat you with respect and care because you
have chosen these people to be in your life..
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