What are the best 1st approaches, and best topics of conversation
once you've broken the ice?
Usually when I see someone I'd like to approach depending on where I am or what I
am doing, and what they are doing I look for things to comment on.
For example if they are wearing an
interesting piece of jewelry, a nice outfit or a particular book they are reading I will comment on it and try to
start a conversation.
Now once you've broken the ice what do you guys think the best topics of conversation
are to get them interested? Ppl always tell me not to discuss work or school b/c it's boring and they want to
escape that.
Yet the funny thing is sometimes when I walk by 2 ppl talking and obviously flirting with
eachother I over hear them discussing work and/or school with positive feedback?
So should I be talking about
work/school?
Normally I w/o talking too much about myself (unless they ask of course) I try to find out as much
as I can about them. Their likes, dislikes, hobbies, family and if it the mood is right and the conversation turns
personal that's even better. I try to make sure they know I'm listening and paying close attention to them. And if
it's appropriate, I will try to lightly touch them in some way to let them know I'm interested.
If it's a
woman I see on a regular basis what's the best way to keep things interesting? If you've already learned things
about her and even personally, than what types of things could you discuss to avoid getting boring?
As you know
I'm trying to get my game back on after having been with one hottie for almost 3 years so I just want to make sure
I'm doing the proper things.
Should I ask these questions in the women's forum? I'd like to hear their
opinions in what get's them interested during conversation.
Thanks for your time.
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