This thread kind of touches into many different areas and topics discussed throughout, that is,
what women are looking for outside of pheromone secretion. Body language, attitude, personality, physical
appearance, environment, history, time of the year and/or minute of the day may work for or against you. Much of the
above, in terms of finding out WHY someone is attracted to differing levels of these variables, is extremely
complex. Take for example, physical attraction. We are told that symmetry plays a large role in this as women tend
to view this as a sign of reproductive fitness. Personality and attitude can work for or against you just as it can
with us. Have you ever looked at a women and though she was attractive, but found her LESS attractive after she
opened her mouth? It can go that way for you too. It doesn't mean that your a loser
, it just means this person
doesn't respond well to the way your handle yourself. You mentioned above the environmental factors that play into
it as well. Why is it that soothing music can help to set a mood? What is it about speaking softly that can
sometimes help? Sometimes it helps to look at things in extremes or otherwise broaden the view. Take the music for
example: Does she know the song? What are the words saying? Has she had positive or negative reactions in the past
associated with the song(s)? Even larger, what is the rest of the environment? Soft music probably won't help you
set a mood in a mcdonalds. Same with soft speaking: What are you SAYING to her? Would you say it is generally more
socially indicative of romantic situations to be softer rather than speaking very loudly? Could you imagine seducing
a woman by yelling at her? And once again, what is your environment?
Nothing profound really, but the idea I'm
trying to get at is that things work together. Variables come together to make or break you and I believe it is a
combination of all of them that will dictate results for the pure fact that we cannot rely soley on pheromone
supplementation to do our handy work. It is the human condition, that is, our abilities to comprehend and be social
that dictate the overal result... well, unless you can spray on your pheromones and have men or women jump you
without opening your mouth
heheh.
Thanks
Matt
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