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Bigdog, I hope I\'m wrong, but I see red flags

all over the place here...seriously. Fortunately, you abstained the first time. Until you know a lot more,

don\'t escalate the intimacy...maybe she\'s different, but most people save the serious skeletons in their

closets until after things get closer...if she has even more to share than she\'s told you so far, then that\'s

a hell of a lot of baggage...

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I agree. The babe is lugging around

a whole set of Samsonite, and a couple of steamer trunks.