I have a question that I don\'t know whether anyone could answer as it puzzles me. I\'ve been LJBF\'ed 3-4 times over the years, and in three of those cases I agreed to \"just be friends\". In all cases the ladies involved were
seeing other guys for a portion of our friendship - yet in every case the moment I began dating and got myself a gf, they would have nothing to do with me (and this would be even after being \"friends\" for over a year).

It didn\'t bother me too much, but it just seems peculiar and because this has happened fairly recently *again* it seems, I\'m wondering, what explains this behavior?