Seadove,
Help is exactly what I am trying to give him. He needs to get off his ass, get a job, and he won\'t have time for all of this pot smoking and masturbating. He might even develop some new social skills!

Clearly, the boy is bored out of his mind and knows he needs to get busy.

I agree, he is asking for help...but, I don\'t believe that patronizing him is helpful.