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Yes, it\'s correct -- I posted links above. The

thing about how and why women talk, and how frustrating it is for a woman to try to talk to a man when he keeps

butting in and saying \"Do this! Well, then, do that!\" is well documented; many counselors have written advice

about this phenomenon. I think it has to do with the fact that women connect everything both factually and

emotionally at the same time. So while a woman is trying to convey an emotional experience, the man is just

processing the facts she\'s reciting, and expecting them to lead to some conclusion. When they don\'t, and if

she doesn\'t tell the story in a linear fashion, he just can\'t process and stops listening/shuts down. I\'ve

seen more fights betwen men and women because of this, where she says \"You talk to me like you think I\'m

stupid\" (because he keeps telling her what to do) and he is completely bewildered because how could his reaction

be wrong? It\'s LOGICAL. arggg
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I

learnt to just give the women I loved a hug [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

thank god