Need some girl advice

[koolking1]

constraints, I

would just go for her. When walking with her, just hold her hand and see how she reacts, if favorably, the skies

the limit. If not, 18 days will go by quick any way.

[idesign]

She's given you all the cues

you need, go for it. KK has good advice, just move in gently and be yourself. She obviously likes you, and is

probably wondering why you're taking so long to make a move!

And as Jim said, you only have two

options.

Chemistry can't be built, its just there. Fortunately for you its already there with this girl, don't

wait!

[Lycan]

thanks for the replies, you're

all correct.
I like the idea of holding her hand while walking, but that depends on the conversation we're having

right? i mean if she's telling me something funny about her family or friends, wouldn't it be awkward to hold her

hand.

[koolking1]

go for it, be

spontaneous and just see what happens. Time is of the essence!!!

[College_Man]

okay, ive been reading some

pua stuff recently, and this may work if you need a definite clue.
figure out some way to move locations and take

her hand while moving locations. squeeze her hand a bit and if she squeezes back you probably can go further.
This

may be awkward, so you can do the david deangelo kiss test. feel her hair (above her ear im thinking) and say

something like it looks so soft. if she doesn't tense up (read her body language), go ahead.
Or you can just do

Mystery's "would you like to kiss me?" test. ask that if she says anything except for No, kiss her. If she says no,

say "i wasn't saying you could".
if you do 2 out of the 3 that should give you a definate answer. Id recommend

doing the DeAngelo one. Its probably the easiest to play off as something not sexual if she rejects you and tenses

up.

[Lycan]

i asked her out and she said yes,

but she couldn't say when she'd be able to, so she gave me her number and asked me to call her.
Thanks for the

tips college man! I'll try 2 and 3, but i cant understand the first one...
"figure out some way to move locations

and take her hand while moving locations." not sure what you mean by that.

[College_Man]

the squeezing hand thing is

sort of unconsious, it is an indicator of an emotional connection/rapport depending on whose pua guide you use. It

seems as if you already have rapport so this isn't necessary.

And...imo you kinda blew it w/ the dating frame.

A girl wont have sex once you make the relationship into a dating frame. Im assuming that is mostly what youre

after.
You may still be able to get out of a dating frame (if thats what you want, im just assuming here) by

making the event something besides her (a date is her). But once you go on the first date, youre pretty much locked

into the dating frame. off the top of my head, Bowling? if youre good at bowling. but its best for like 4 people

aswell. so...think of something. The key is letting her into something you already could be doing.

[Lycan]

well, like i said in my opening

post, i did want a relationship, but its not possible with her since she's going back to Arizona.
So, something

non-serious should be the way to go...i guess. Do you think i should ask her to join me for drinks at a bar or a few

games of pool? something along those lines?