Originally Posted by
phersurf
First you put down
the tactics that the PUAs use (that work only in LA, NY according to you, I'll tell you an experience I had in
Houston if you want), then you tell us what your tactics are and they're the same. Maybe not the same techiques,
but you're communicating the same things.
You "go and sit by her and treat her like one of the boys". Dude,
this is David Deangelo 101!
"but you aren't beeing subservient trying to hit on her or make her like you"
again, David D, Style and others. They all teach not to try to make a woman like you. Almost all their tactics are
aimed at exactly this outcome. "I'm hot, why is this guy so comfortable around my and not trying to hit on me?"
Your'e subcomunicating that you're the chooser and this an atractive trait.
"I'm always surrounded by
attractive women in bars because this is generally what I use", "If she's not interested in you in that way, great
you have a hot female friend now you can use for social validation with other women" You've got David Deangelo,
Mystery, Style, et al down cold! Congradulations!
You did it on your own! You're a natural. These exact things
are what they teach, this is the "game".
And yes, there are ways to get out of the LJBF zone. All they say is
that it's too much trouble, and there are so many great woman out there, why waste the time. I don't agree, it can
be well worth the trouble.
Unfortunately many of us didn't get this stuff naturally (you probably think to
your self, "common guys, this stuff is obvious"). We were brought up to pursue woman, tell them how beautiful they
are, give them gifts, take them to expensive restaurants.
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