Originally Posted by
surfs_up
there is a
possibility that pheromones are doing their job and the user isn't socially adept, good enough at picking up on
social nuances, to sense how act 1, scene 2 is unfolding, or doesn't know what to do with the energies that are
released when the -mone shifts happen. Face it, a lot of guys, probably the majority of guys, are poorly attuned to
minimal cues and what they might imply. So they have a memorized routine... be cocky and funny be cocky and funny be
cocky and funny... and they pour more of this on at every turn, and the woman is thinking "what is wrong with this
doofus he isn't listening to me ?" or more like "this pompous jerk is so into his shallow self there's no room for
me in this conversation"... or "this guy is hiding behind such an blatantly bad act" that they feel dumped on,
overloaded with stuff they don't care about, or they could see better on the Lifetime Channel... from experience
with many combinations of -mones the best connections are built from simple, uncomplicated, organic interchange,
underacted, underplayed, kind of minimal and rich at the same time... because I think at the root of it, all of us
want to be "felt", understood, gotten, acknowledged as a person, valued for what we are.... good verb, to value...
the pheromone may create that opening where it is okay to express something more intimate and personal in the middle
of an impersonal world, you know in a world full of cell phones and gadgets blinking shit, ring tones, poses,
celebrity cribs, and in the middle of all that crap a moment opens up and somebody snaps to what you're about....
that's cool, that's mystical... if you can get yourself in that place, and you have the -mones as your trusty
allies that will then put demands on your skills... -mones are funny that way because they open up so many more
possibilities that you might not have been prepared for, how many people have written "she was
agitated/flustered/aroused whatever and I didn't know what to do next" ?
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