I wonder if culture plays any

roll in her being hard to get and sending mixed signals.If she is accustomed to dealing with men in a predatory

environment she will tend to be very cautious in the signals she sends.Another thig to be careful of is comming off

as a whimp.A woman who was raised with predatory men will be somwhat predatory herself and will not tolerate

weakness.I have a friend who spent some time over seas who ran into exactly that problem.In the staes he could

handle himself fairly well...but once he got out into the real world the rules changed and he became a doormat more

than once.No fault of his own...they just play hard ball out there....