Actually hanging out with

'naturals' is the way to go.

I've spent some time in a house of 5 cool 20 something year old naturals.


Its fun to see the dynamics, because one was the gorgeous model-looks with a rapport-approach.
Another was a

less attractive assholish type.
A third was a big buff dominant type.
Etc..

Thing is , they all got

laid alot and could hold alot of relationships, charm women.

Problem is , when youre out with 3 other guys

in the calvin-klein-underwear-model-caliber you need to DROP THE EGO(not act jealous or insecure, shy etc) kick

back, observe how they behave and try to be as cool of a guy as them(but NOT in a tryhard way, people DO notice

that). Then if you can figure out WHERE theyre coming from then you will get the 'inner-game' down. One big aspect

is the fact of how validated you feel.

People who look good naturally feel validated pretty much all the

time, not being insecure, not being jealous, not being shy, not hiding their sexuality, etc.