I have a problem which

I would like help with, as a newbie to the forums.
I am 58 years old, recently widowered after many years of

happy marriage. I would like to get back in the ‘swing’ of things again, but, though I’m fairly confident around

women, I feel diffident about my age.
I am reasonable looking, 180cm tall, that’s under 6 feet, and about 85 kg

in weight, so I’m not overweight. I have purchased PI unscented, which I mixed with an anti-perspirant, but it

doesn’t seem to have made any noticeable difference to reactions of women around me. I put small dabs behind my

ears.
What I want to know is, what other product can I use? I have enough to buy one more pheromone; I don’t

want, at my age, to attract silly young teenage girls, rather more mature women above 30. What can I use?
Any

suggestions would be welcome.