Quote Originally Posted by idesign View Post
Nice

comprehensive post TG, glad you made it to the forum.

You're right, dosing is critical, especially when you

start to mix. I take sabbaticals regularly and wear nothing for a few days, just to "clear out the chems". As for

the PUA game, there are a few members here who are into that. I never could get past some of the less tasteful

terminology.

Agree with Rbt on timing. I've had a few fast reactions, but it seems that if you can hang

with someone for 10-15 mins they've gotten a nose full, and enough time to process it.
Thanks for your

comments, I'd like to talk with you further about proper usage and dosing techniques as that is obviously and issue

that I need to master.

The thing that attracted me to the PUA "community" is that they've organized and

correlated the Dating Skillset and set them down in a logical cohesive way and established a language by which MEN

can make some sense of their sexuality and gain more control of their love lives.

I would say that as a man I've

done better than most, as an unconcious & oblivious "natural", I enjoyed many wonderful joyful, exciting, encounters

and experiences with many wonderful beautiful women over the years. I have no regrets. I have been married, enjoyed

many LTRs, One Nighters, Threesomes, 5 minute lays etc.... long, long before anyone ever thought of the term "PickUp

Artist".

My difference was that I got "hooked up" with women pretty much "by accident" due to my basic good

looks, fairly healthy, manly physique, and
fairly charming, friendly, outgoing, & charismatic personality

etc...

I pretty much thought of the man-woman things as a matter of "luck", and that I was just a guy who was

"luckier" than most of the other guys. There were also other guys that I knew who were "luckier" than I was as

well....

The knowledgebase of social and sexual skils and understandings that have been developed over the last

10 years by the PUA community pretty much frees a man from the business of "luck" when it comes to women.

Using

the PUA skillset, I can approach, open, date & mate the woman I want, when I want, anywhere, anytime "on purpose" &

not "by accident" and the outcome is pretty much determined by my skillset and not by "luck" or "fate"...

The

moral aspect of whether or not I chose to date & mate the one fantastic woman of my dreams or keep a harem of many

beautiful women, is one of personal choice, but the fact still remains I need the same skillset to bed either one

woman or 20.....

All the best,

TG