I am happy to read what people are reporting about oral contraceptives and the lack of sexual interest.

I am in my 40's and have been off the pill for years. I have a fine libido. I have no mood swings and no weight

gain. We use condoms and they work fine for us. I enjoy using mones and cops to enhance my mood. I don't know that

they attract guys. I think they make me friendly and then I attract guys. Men with wives my age that are taking the

pill are bored to death. They see me as a normal, natural and still sex woman. Their wives are bloated, bored and

not interested in a good romp in the sack. What is the point of taking birth control if you do not want to

have sex? It defeats the purpose.

Keep up your quest for sexuality. It does not define us, but it is part of who

you are.

Sweet Thing