I mean that

the very first thing that comes to his mind is physical ... a chemical reaction, immediately.

I have

noticed it isn't quite that way with females ... so often I've gotten rapt attention from females, apparently just

because I had a certain expression on my face ... DST referred to the phenomenon as "a momentary glint in my

eye".

I think there is a different sequence with women than with men, when it comes to what they notice.

That is why I started this thread ...

Now I'm going to go brush my teeth and learn to dance