Humorous situation or tough quandry?

[Gegogi]

"I advice just saying hi

and as her to coffee or lunch. Than just joke around and like "critisize" her faults. Hot girls think they are

perfect and so does typical guys."

Back in the day, I used to do that and really upset my dates. They

thought I was an insensitive ass forever and wouldn't go out with me anymore. Many women--no matter how hot others

may think she is--are extremely sensitive and insecure about their bodies, intelligence and clothing. A lot of hot

women look in the mirror and see a dog. Yeah, bow-wow bro. So a nice comment can be very welcome. In fact, they're

often aching to hear one. I had a GF blow up once because I didn't say anything about her new doo and outfit. Be

sincere, don't over do it and don't be patronizing.

It's better to play it safe until you know them well

enough you don't stick your foot in your mouth with a bad joke, critical comment or fake cocky behavior. Once you

know their limits, you can do any thing you want up to that point. Women are individuals so one size does not fit

all. What works for one will not work for another. You gotta go with the flow.

[DUKE3100]

"Many women--no matter how hot

others may think she is--are extremely sensitive and insecure about their bodies, intelligence and clothing. A lot

of hot women look in the mirror and see a dog."

LOL!!! You have to be kidding me. Look I dont know much about

Hawaii....but where i am from the girls know they are hot....I just respectfully and totally disagree with you here

man. where I am from guys are constantly drooling over these 9's and 10's and complimenting them and all over them

with their pathetic worshipping and pedastool placements. Woman are much more intelligent then a lot of guys give

them credit for....thats for sure. Yea woman like to be noticed and to feel good and be worshipped...but the

confident and good looking ones ones dont have sex with those guys....because those guys are the sheep. Save the ass

kissing for after your married....you'll need it then!Heres what you do....

Dont buy her flowers or kiss her

butt.....Set the tone early with some sort of a compliment NOT ON HER LOOKS but on something she does or on a detail

in her attire ....or as an "evaluation" of her....make sure to build a little bit of rapport...ask her an

interesting question about something that has to do with getting her opinion...then once there is some rapport and

she see's you are not some jerk and before she has a chance to decide you are "just another boring guy" ....it

would be best if you start being playful with her and bust on her a few times if she is really a 9....are you with

me? Make sure its natural and funny...dont do it just to do it. Dont just try to randomly cram it in there. If there

is a good chance for a funny bust on her that shows your not intimidated by her like a canine....than take the

shot.... IT IS CRUCIAL THAT YOU SHOW YOU ARE THE MAN AND ARE NOT INTIMIDATED BY HER...as much as you can. I find

woman will actually sometimes purposely leave themselves open and purposely set themselves up to be busted on.... to

see if you are playful and fun and not just another sick porno watchin worshipper of women trying to show her she

should "let" you have sex with her.