Don\'t make any advances on him whatsoever, tell him you just see him as a friend if makes sexual overtures and his interest will go up. Don\'t bust his balls too much though or he\'ll walk. Can\'t believe I\'m giving this advice to a lady as I hate these games from ladies, but they work (on men who don\'t know how to counter this [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] ). If he figures he can get sex without intimacy, he won\'t have respect for you, but withdraw any possibility of sex and only respond when he is being sensitive etc. and he will gain respect and know that to get you he\'ll need to give some of his heart not just his dick. Blunt but it\'s the truth as I see it [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]