Truth is :
there is no problem at all.
Its all in your head. Loose the attitude and let people (err I mean girls) get close to u. U said u have huge success when u work out alot. (Success as in : Hit producing success) Well great ! Build up on that. Use this to your advantage. You gave great advice to BUBU on the other thread. Read it again to yourself dude [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/wink.gif[/img]
Another truth is : You need to realize that right now you are not being REALISTIC but veeeery PESSIMISTICALLY about pretty much everything .
Examples ? Here are a few :
You say pheros are only placebo , eventhough you know they aren\'t. So what did u do ? U created some weird reverse-placebo effect on yourself ! See the irony ? If you talk+ think bad about something and dont trust/believe in it , u create a self-fullfilling prophecy , unfortunatly not to YOUR advantage !
Pessimism will not get u anywhere !!!!!! (Unless your desired destination is depression)
A healthy dose of optimism with realism is the right way to follow.
You say you can\'t have love AND sex. Is sex really that important to you ? Is it more important than a good relation shipt to a girl (even if it doesn\'t mean SEX-the next day)
By saying you can\'t have them both (like its a rule written by god and designed to punish u - guess what it isn\'t) You just create another pessimist prophecy ! F.U.C.K that crap !!!
Seriously tweak the attitude abit. Its never too late + you are intelligent enough to figure what needs to be done.
I hope I could help u a little.
+ Don\'t post another \" I don\'t get love + sex for all eternity\" or I will jump the window
*sigh*
OK , first floor over here [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/wink.gif[/img]
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