Originally Posted by
MagicPower
I'm not sure you're getting my point either, so I'll try to give you a
comparison as simple as possible.
If a traffic cop pulls me over for speeding
(thank God, none ever has), there is something I want from him. That is, to get away without a fine, or if that
turns out to be impossible, with a fine as small as possible.
In order to
reach that goal, it would be most stupid to act according to my true nature, that is to tell him to stuff his stupid
speed limits and that I drive as fast as I please and will continue to do so in the future, and that I would like to
beat the shit out of those bastards who keep screwing it up for hundreds of car drivers by setting up absurd speed
limits.
Neither am I going to make the attempt of turning myself into a
law-abiding citizen who never exceeds a speed limit. It would remove the danger of getting speeding tickets, but I
don't want to try and learn to approve of something that I detest from the bottom of my heart – i.e. that some scum
have the power to oblige other people to drive no faster than 70 km/h on a road that can be safely driven with 100
km/h most of the time. And even if I tried to, it's not at all certain that I would succeed to change myself into
something so profoundly different from my current nature.
The only reasonable
course of action would, in my opinion, be to try and explain (politely enough to not irritate the cop) that I was
not speeding, and if he insists that I did, say that I must have forgotten to look at the speedometer and possibly
pressed too hard on the accelerator for one moment, and I am very sorry about this and I usually never violate
traffic regulations and it will never happen again.
As to the long term
strategy, it would be reasonable to improve my skill of noticing traffic cops early enough, always warn other
drivers of traffic cops on their way (so that they would be thankful and warn me in the future), use whatever
chances I might get to achieve changes in law etc, and well, yes, try to drive slower whenever it's not too
boring.
Now, back to dealing with the opposite sex. As I naturally detest
lying, pretending and deceiving (as it seems, more so than an average man), it's understandable that when I was
younger and naive, I stubbornly kept being myself and acting naturally with women (as well as with everybody). After
many years of painful disappointments, I learned that with women, it's not about displaying who you are and what
you want. It's all about playing the game. Impressions are everything. Of course, as you try to display the image
that would work best with women, you grow in the process yourself too, but to suggest that every man can be
successful with women by honestly displaying his true being, is obviously absurd.Every woman is unique and has a unique image in her head as to what she wants its all in
her head as some women always fall for bums, some really love a more efiminate sort of guy some like rough types
some go for smooth rough, some rough rough, or smooth sofisticated, or sofisticated rough, or rough alpha, or rough
macho, or smooth macho, or wimpy sofisticated, or wimpy and sexy, some tall dark and handsome, some love a bald
head, others love mostaches, some like hairy legs some like big talkers, others like quite talkers so they can do
more talking, some like casual smart, some like smart smart, some like cheeky men or rude men some love jerks and
i could go on 4 years , Because there is no accounting 4 taste, OH I FORGOT some really like
a down to earth genuine nice guy someone who can stand alone and be what he wants to be, so one earth man is not
going to be the choice of every woman and unless you know exactly what a woman is looking for in a man when you
first approach her then who is you gonna be then, unless they put out a pheromone called INSTANT
EVERYWOMANS MAN.
Oh, by the way, I've seen people achieve
great success with outright ridiculous posing which I could never pull off and which would be too disgusting for me
to try and learn to do. As to whether or not their happy, I have no idea. They tend to look very happy but I most
certainly wish that they're only acting.
It's a wide-spread belief
among men that women can read you like an open book. I could explain what this myth of women's superhuman intuition
is all about, but firstly, that's a bit longer story, secondly, I'm not sure you're the kind of person worth
wasting my time on, and thirdly, we're really getting off topic here. This is supposed to be a pheromone
forum.
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