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i am slim, though I don\'t have a thin neck, and

I think that is a difference maker (thus people think pancho is slim), but the only way your body will get in the

way of getting with a women is if you have an issue with it, not her.

Just because they don\'t prefer it,

doesn\'t mean you can\'t defeat what they think it says about you with your actions. Sure there are those who

have wierd hangups, but there are those rare guys who maybe do that with the size of a woman\'s chest or

ass.

The biggest opponent of skinny guys though can be themselves, not the females. So don\'t even sweat it, a

little adversity can be a fun thing too.

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Well, I like built guys

AND thinner guys. But, I alos think you are right-- if a guy has wit, charm,and sensitivity, I forget ALL about what

I admire in a man, physically. Suddenly, that guy who was NOT my type becomes my ideal. Someone, I forget who, said,

about charm-- \"If you have it, you don\'t need anything else. If you don\'t have it, nothing else will

help.\"