Oooo, that\'s a tough one. Club type dancing is completely unstructured and mostly consists of bump&grind or just shakin\' it. I think the big thing there is just to be confident and \"lead\" when you\'re up close with someone. You know, get your groove going and then put a hand on her hip to get her moving with you, use your body to flirt with her, etc. Just don\'t try to feel her up or anything too quickly or it\'ll be over before it starts. I think more than anything, that kind of dancing is just about feeling the beat- listen for it and move your hips with it. The more you do it, the more comfortable you\'ll be with it. Do it in front of a mirror in private first if you think you look like an idiot. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] IMO, Salsa or some other type of latin dance is a good way to start if you have no concept of rhythm. You\'ll be forced to \"feel\" the beat and you\'ll get a crash course in leading (which is oh so important, in nearly any form of couple dancing). Breakdance and glowsticking are cool, but they\'re mostly individual, so they\'re more practiced than normal club dancing- just do what you feel (and watch the guys around you who look like they\'re doing well with the ladies). As far as videos, I have no clue! I always just learn new forms of dance by observation and repetition. Good luck!
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