Its love when he wants you bad probably cant get anyone else or be bothered chasing anyone else, or when he is about to lose a woman to either breakup or another man it then becomes love, just to distract the woman back to him, we use it as an emotional anchor to keep our women interested and focused on us, as we know women (men to) but on an emotional/attraction/excitement thing become distracted by those roving hormones searching for a tradeup.

Women on the other hand love is when they are comfortable and want to keep a man around - its a support 7 year hormone realise thing.

Random ravings from me, on the other hand love is the romantic ideal that society says we must find ? anyone disagree.