This is an interesting topic but as far as approach/signals etc. I won\'t discuss that as I feel it\'s better explained by the layguides/faqs etc at fastseduction. But I did want to mention one thing that I think is vital to understand - when I look at all I\'ve learnt as far as seduction goes, the most valuable lesson I\'ve learnt is that if a lady puts a guy into LJBF\'s land it\'s as a result of his failure to take the initiative. To be more clear and direct, she only wants him as a friend NOW, because He left her with No choice but to put him in the \"friend\" category. See, if a lady gives you enough time to get to know her and you\'ve hung out a couple of times but you are not assertive, are asexual/androgynous in her presence (that is,
you are always the perfect gentleman/nice/non-sexual with her) and won\'t make the moves by expressing your interest in her sexually you will become a \"friend\" fast. You have to let her know you are interested in her physically, not by talking about it (e.g. you are so beautiful, you are gorgeous she\'s thinking blahblahblahborrrrring ---> he\'s too wimpy to touch) but actually make the moves, that is touching her hair/skin, kissing her, etcetc.If she\'s hanging out with you she already likes you but the fastest way to LJBF is to remain the gentleman and if you don\'t make the move your forcing her to either
a)make the first moves sexually (which most times she won\'t coz she feels the guy must for reasons to many to list here
b)put you in LJBF land because she knows you don\'t have the guts to do what needs to be done to get the ball rolling so to speak
and most time b) wins out over a) and you wonder why this LJBF stuff keeps happening to you when you are such a nice guy/have a good job/look decent etcetc . Now this is not to say you go about groping/pawing away at women as that\'s a quick way to end up in jail - rather it means quietly asserting your physical interest in a lady that already likes and feels comfortable with you.
So whenever I\'m with a lady and I see she\'s starting to get that bored/glazed look I remember this and with the stuff I\'ve learnt from the layguides etc. it\'s easy enough to snap her out of that state and get her attention again. You would not believe the amount of women I coulda been with if I only knew then what I know now as I had \"friends\" in college (9\'s and 10\'s) who I spent countless times alone with at clubs/bars, restaurants being the perfect gentlemen but never slept with any of them and I could never figure out what I was doing wrong - absolutely clueless was I :-)
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