I don\'t claim to be an expert on pheros or have as wide an experience with them as more erstwhile members of this forum, but, Ido know two things:
(i) You can\'t make or be friends with someone who doesn\'t wish to be friends with you
(ii) You can\'t make someone like you or make you think you\'re attractive (looks wise)
However, having said that, pheromones may make other people notice you. They won\'t know why or how, but they will increase another\'s responsiveness and receptiveness towards you. It can be either positive or negative. Pheros, I\'ve learned from lurking here, and through personal experience, are a double-edged sword
The point is, that when you notice this responsiveness, YOU will have to make the move to make yourself appear interesting, and interested in them. A lot of it comes down to self-esteem and confidence.
Pheros are a great tool as a confidence-booster. You can put them on, and from that moment you can believe yourself to be attractive, interesting and this builds confidence. Of course, a few positive reactions from targets will go further to boosting your confidence. You\'ll go out with a smile on your face. Don\'t underestimate the power of a smile. It works wonders in making people relax and friendly.
As for the person you know...difficult to say. How do you know she dislikes you? You say she finds you unattractive, yet I know a few women who find me unattractive physically, yet they like me as a person. It comes down to personality and strength of character.
Wearing pheros around her may help to get you noticed. How you react to her responsiveness is entirely up to you and determines the outcome. Come across as interesting and approachable.
If I were in your place (and I have been in the past...back in the days where there were no such things as phero mixes), I would go more for -nol products to make you seem approachable, friendly and make your teargets feel relaxed and chatty around you.
SoE is a good one to start with.
PF is great as well, it has a nice smell to it, as do X-cite wipes.
AE can be very interesting around strangers or on Blind Dates, but unpredictable around people you know.
SPMO is also good on its own or mixed with NPA a la JB#2 in ratio of 7:3
You don\'t say how well you know the girl. Do you interact with her often in any way? Would she be familiar with your own personal phero signature? Is there any personal reason you say she dislikes you?
Before you go and try wearing anything around her, it would first be best to experiment with some of these phero products with others. Find out what works for you best. Be aware of people\'s body language and responses around you when wearing them. gauge their receptiveness towards you when you strike up conversations. Be pro-active rather than re-active in your approach with people, but don\'t be pushy or force youself on people...therin lies disaster and the road to inner emotional turbulence and turmoil [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/wink.gif[/img]
Just my 2 cents worth (I\'ll take off my pseudo-psycholigist\'s hat now [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/tongue.gif[/img])
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