Wow. this is all stressful to me trying to choose. lol. It\'s like brain surgery. Everytime i have my heart set on a specific product, i read several posts which makes me not want it. I like soe but i also want to initiate the sexual response too. Should i get SOE with TE and wear them together.. or soe with npa? or just TE alone.. I dunno. I just need someone\'s true gut feeling.