There is still the matter of the

conscious brain...

I have found that some women no matter how "turned on" their bodies may be with pheromones

etc, will slam on the brakes if there is any possible potential "socially unacceptable" problem. If you are

associated due to a marriage between your families that may even be enough. Public "flirting" in a "safe"

environment where it can be taken as just kidding around may be okay, but anything really "serious" between you may

not happen until all doubt about family reactions are satisfied.

I have been in a similar situation (quite some

time ago).