"BUT, mystery has its
downsides. I've also been told that a woman who had interest in me did not show signs because she was unsure. Had I
known that at the time, I would have jumped on that interest. Its all part of learning the Salsa and not being
Brasilian." -- Idesign.
You make good points, and this is the most important one above. At what point do you
stop being mysterious and instead be aggressive?
And how do you pull it off without looking like your a
schizo!
I assume most people don't switch between mystery aura one day and aggressive the next. Others who
see them day to day would wonder if they're schizo or putting on an act.
The secret I guess is in knowing
when to be what, and having that come off as real. The best actors have what it takes to push the right buttons to
get what they want in the end, mystery just being a means to the end.
After all how many people just want to
be mysterious? They probably want women to chase them; set the bait and wait. Men are altogether caught into a
trap of being the aggressor, and most women can see it coming from a mile away.
My only concern here is if
its very beautiful women one are after, they usually set the bait themselves and have men chase them so how would a
mysterious man get beautiful women chasing him?
It would be like two defensive boxers trying to play a game
of boxing. In the end no one makes a move.
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