Some quick thoughts:
Well first
and formost you are a guy, that was a girl. How you act, dress, etc is going to be different. I don't think you
will win any points by wearing green tights unless you are trying to look like a Superhero's sidekick. That would
be wierd, not mysterious...
At this point I wouldn't ven think about the pheromones. The visual impact will be
first and formost.
As far as mystery- it's often what is wondered about, not outright stated or obvious. In
terms of clothing, what comes to mind is more loose ninja garb that hides and hints without revealing, so maybe I'd
skip the tight pants and shirt. I'd think darker solid colors (again think ninja, or even a spooky Halloween outfit
- what strikes you as "mysterious").
Personality? Unrevealing. James Bond. Things hinted at, but not stated.
Body? Whatever works. Though off the top of my head I could see, again, the James Bond type (young Sean Connery,
Tim Dalton type), or een a heavier type, being far more thought provoking that sopmeone that looks like a scrawney
nerdy wuss.
Skin? Nope. Leave it to the imagination. But I wouldn't go to the extreem of covering myself head
to toe ninja style, or with a hoodie, etc. It *may* work in some situations though.
You can avoid sounding
"Stuck up" if when you do speak, you do so in an open friendly manner. Genuine smiles, no (or few) smirks. Avoid the
word "I." Stories about yourself, etc. True strength will show. Trying to be the hero of every conversation will
only make you into a jerk.
One thing that is common to both her and what you want to be is right there in what
you said: "...had a confident but quiet demeanor."
Deangelo has a good point as well. Make your impression, then
leave. Walk away. Go talk to someone else. A mysterious (and strong/confident)person will have people follow them,
they won't stand around waiting for everyone to come flocking to them and fall at their feet in worship. They are
in control. They "know" things you don't, and that makes you want to find out what it is even more.
I heard one
suggestion, although an odd one, was to imagine that everyone else (or at least your "targets") had a "kick me" sign
on their backs that only you could see. It was a way of seeming to know something about everyone else that they were
not aware of, and it would subtley come through in your behavior. Just enough to make people wonder, a mystery.
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