I'm the very

shy kind of guy, who's prone to get lost when talking to a girl, and finally ends up not saying a word. I tend to

start thinking that she must not think that im attracted to her, even though i am not, and it will ruin the whole

conversation, not to mention a date.

I've been trying chikara, and I think it had some effect for me, since i

experienced women whistling after me, and a girl who tried lots of times to make contact with me, and was all giggly

and blushy. I also tried SOE, but didn't notice much of an effect for me. Well, even though this happened, I

didn't have the self confidence to do something about it, and I'm still being single. There was a girl I tried my

charm on, but it was to no avail..

So, I was wondering, is there a pheromone you people would advice me to,

since I'm so shy on low on self-esteem? Something that may make me more self assured and fearless? Alcohol

sometimes has that effect on me, but I'm thinking about when I meet girls in the normal setting, cause that's the

way I'd like to meet the one I want to be with.