As far as conversation
starters go, its really not a verbal thing. Youl be talking to her long before you say anything with your
mouth.
Body language is an art you must master. Nothing is ever set in stone when it comes to body language but I
can give you a few guide lines that will be generaly helpful, (Or not, it all depends on the woman) but thankfully
some things do generalize as a whole.
While sitting at a table, be sure to keep your legs open, for a male to do
this, it means come talk to me, im available. Crossing your legs says your waiting for someone, crossing your ankles
says Im nervous or I have hidden intent.
Keep your hands out of your pockets and on the table, keep your palms
facing up as much as possible without accualy resting the back of your hands on the table, also try to keep your
hands spaced around the same as your knees, this is an inviting position, it is important not to hide your palms as
this creates subconsious anxiety. Keeping your palms visable gives you a look of honesty. Never cross your arms,
this is a barrier, touch your face as little as possible, and try not to adjust your clothes. If something is really
bothering you, excuse yourself to teh bathroom and deal with it there.
There you go, thats V's guide to the
first 45 seconds of attracting a females attention.
On a side note, I find mixing NPA with most designer (As in
fashion designer) colognes is a VERY bad idea, Im not 100% sure why, but I have heard its due to the way they
brew thier scents. Youl get the same sort of scent freakout with cheaper colognes. I put a bit of Vault on to cover
my NPA, and thus smelt like ear cheese for the rest of the day. The best way to hide the NPA is with a more
expensive and msukier cologne, Id invest in a bit of Drakkar Noir or maybe some Preffered Stock, if you low on
money. Just go easy with it, a little goes a long way in both cases.
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