Need some girl advice

[Lycan]

So we went to a pool hall/bar

Saturday night. She wasn't too good at pool, which was good cos i was holding her hand most of the time and

teaching her how to shoot etc.
We played 4 games, i let her win twice lol. The night ended with me walking her to

her car and we made plans to meet up again over the coming week.
However i do regret not kissing her, i was

waiting for the right timing, and later realized that there were plenty of chances to make my move.
Also i was

wearing Chikara that night.

[tounge]

The next time you two go out, do

something that would intrest her. After all the conversations you have had, surely you know of some of her intrests.



Things seem to be going good,and it sounds like she has a decent intrest in you. It is more important to avoid

doing something stupid to blow it. Just be yourself. It has worked so far.

[College_Man]

youre gonna need to escalate

on your next meeting, or otherwise she will get bored/think you want to be friends.

[idesign]

However i

do regret not kissing her, i was waiting for the right timing, and later realized that there were plenty of chances

to make my move.
Also i was wearing Chikara that night.

Lycan, you remind me of me when I was your age,

and even now to some extent. Relax. Its been said here before, show her your feelings in a natural way. You

feel something for her, and she feels that and likes it. You can even make a joke with her about your nervousness

which could be very endearing to her. Nervousness is flattering to nice girls, but you can't wait forever. You

don't want to be seen as incapable. Been there regretted that.

All of the advice you've gotten here is good,

you just need to act upon it.

When you're alone and all the world is quiet, hold her hands and look into her

eyes with a smile and kiss her softly on the lips. Just do it. You'll know. Rejection is not nearly as bad as

not trying, but I don't think you have to worry about rejection.

[CAtriathlete]

Great advice everyone.



It always pays not to try too hard, nor hestitate in fear. Relax and be yourself.

How about an update Lycan?

How's it going?

-CAt

[SwingerMD]

Lycan,

Anything is possible.

Don't just limit your mind to "just a summer fling" mode. I actually sustained a four year relationship with a

woman that was from here (Seattle) and went to TN for med school. Ok, so it ended really badly due to mistakes on

both of our parts, but I would do it all over again (hopefully not that last bit though).

You've got some really

good suggestions/responses here. Really listen to her. Tease out any hints on what she might enjoy doing next.

One of the most important things on building chemistry and getting the both of you to relax is to make her laugh.

You said you weren't that good at pool . . . how about getting her to laugh at your antics on trying to play.



As for the mones to wear I suggest SOE. It does a great job of getting people in a relaxed/playful mood. Some

people have said that it's not a very sexual type of -mone. Not so. For me this is the most consistant product

that I have in my phero arsenal. You just gotta know how to use it.

-SwingerMD

[Bruce]

I think you have plenty of

indication that she will respond favorably to your advances and it sounds like you are genuinely interested in her.

The only problem is that you will soon be separated geographically. It could be tough, but myself I would probably

throw caution to the wind and get (more) involved. You never know, you might get together again some day.