I've always said what I
think and didn't let people do stuff I didn't want..
A thing that have worked wonders for me are discipline and
consequence for the girls I'm dating..
Fx. If I try to kiss her and I know she won't kiss me just to tease it
gets a consequence! Then I won't kiss her when she tries and lets her come chasing me.. Always turn this around so
you're the one who's in control and in demand.. Then she always has to follow you and please you and she will
never come to the point where she begins to say I want things this way and that way..
I have a friend who have
been with a girl for two years and suddenly she wouldn't let him smoke so he did it secretly.. I thought he was a
puss and she a stupid bitch.. I would NEVER let a girl control me in that way.. I would say I'm gonna do what I
wanna and if you don't like it then find someone else to be around because this is the way I am.. And keep telling
yourself "you're worth much much better" because then she will never decide over you because you can find someone
else who cares more if she doesn't like something about you.. Because there will be someone out there who will love
every detail about you and let you be you.. And it's the same with my work and my friends.. I always tell them
straight what I think about them and what they say.. And if they cross the line I can find someone else to be around
till they come and say they're wrong.. And if not - then they're not true friends and not worth it or you
time..
But you also have to be able to see when you're wrong yourself but still.. You have things you know.. This
is what I WANT and will not compromise about it.. And these things (like I can't take people lie to me - then
they're like thin air to me) you have to know what you want and always stick to them.. And then there's other
things you would like but you can bend if they don't always go that way (fx. I appreciate when people show up to
the scheduled time when we have an appointment but I can live with it if they come a little to late)..
But alway
remember just to be yourself and be true to yourself.. Then you will always have people around you that will treat
you with respect and care because you have chosen these people to be in your life..
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