Introduction...and I badly need some help!!

[Lor]

ditto....just the

feeling I've been going through!!

When I read the form for a week.what I realized that Chikara make the

opposite sex freindly, chatty and respectful towards u.

I know pheromone will not work if u r a wuss(kind of

state which I am in...but not for long).This forum guided me that if u have pheromones on.... u have the edge....and

if I know that....it will boost my morale. I am pretty sure pheromone acts as psychological thing

also.....!!!

care to hear a lady's point of view?
alot of attention here is being given to the

situation with this girl.
experience with anything is what gives you confidence in that area....
you might

consider dating ...alot.
not every girl has to make your heart feel squishy to have a good time.
see a movie- take

a girl, play some pool - take a girl,have some dinner - take a girl. acting like everday is your last and you mind

as well have fun is extremely attractive if it is genuine.
the best thing to practice is rejection. how do I know?

well,consider how awkward it would be for the girl to ask someone out when it is not their role to do so, and risk

getting rejected/turned down/brushed off whatever. that was me.
imagine being able to approach anyone at all and

not care what the outcome is..... you may not get the gal you targeted, but that confidence is attractive to

everyone else.
by the time you reach this gal you adore, she will see you as someone who has it going on... which

you were in the beginning... but only now are able to show.
advice is great, but if your not yourself people know

it. the only way around that is by experience.

[maxo-texas]

Lor is completely

correct.

To paraphrase the matrix...

You need girls, lots of girls.

Get on matchmaker or craigslist or

whatever and go on dates to things you enjoy. In a year when the next Ms. Right comes along, you'll be ready.

I

think you will like the effect of SOE.

I used it last night at my new dance lessons and was everyone's best

friend.