I cannot speak forOriginally Posted by knightzero
others, but when I experience "loss of personal space" it's not just due to pheromones. I am usually the
best-dressed man in the area, and am in an open state of mind. The pheromones you wear can affect your mood, but
they cannot affect the way you dress.
Some of the guys here say they dress very casually all the time and they
still get good hits from women. Nonetheless, most women in my area notice a well-dressed man before they'll look at
a sloppily-dressed man.
You have to try different things: go to different places, dress differently, act
differently, wear pheromones, don't wear pheromones, etc.
If you are constantly waiting for The Big Hit,
it will probably never come.
When I first started using pheromones, I thought I was wasting money. I didn't
expect them to work. A lot of people criticize them and rebuke the industry. But I wanted to try something
different.
So I ordered a pheromone product which came in a citrus-scented cologne. I thought it was a little
pungent, but I wore it to work anyway. As soon as I walked in the door, a woman passing down the hallway literally
slammed herself up against the opposite wall and yelled out, "Whoa!"
That convinced me that pheromone products
(at least the legitimate ones) work. Since then, I have tried several other products with no expectations. Some work
better than others. Some require stronger applications than others.
I can pretty much decide at the onset of an
evening out what effect I will achieve by careful selection of products and colognes and strength of application. I
know what it takes because I experimented extensively.
You don't accumulate that knowledge by reading the
forum. You don't accumulate it by dabbing on pheromones for a couple of weeks and doing all the stuff you normally
do.
You accumulate it gradually over an extended period of time where you meet new people in a variety of
situations.
It helps if you are a "stable man" in a high turnover situation (such as being a teacher whose
students change out every quarter or semester). You can be the regular guy at the club, the experienced tutor, the
always-attending book club audience member who sees each guest author, etc.
Any situation where you are the
dominant male because of your long-time presence, where the other guys are fumbling around trying to figure out what
to do, helps you relax and be comfortable with yourself. When you relax in that way, you can take advantage of the
pheromone advantage because you'll start to notice which women express interest in you.
I'm a huge believer in
learning to read body language. Women communicate their feelings and interest in ways most men just miss completely
because men don't read that kind of body language. We grow up reading the body language of domination and
aggression.
Somewhere along the way, American men (at least) lost the tradition of learning how to read and
respond to women's subtle indications of interest. Probably most men have lost that skill because we're too
civilized to behave the way our ancestors used to.
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