"Attraction Isn't a Choice", and I'm quite surprised by it. I expected something that would make me think the
man is a sexist, or a lackwit, or an a$$... but instead, I found myself reading a book my best friend could have
written.
Not only was it very interesting and well written (I'm not quite finished with it) but it's stuff I
have seen my best friend do countless times, and he's about as successful with women as they get. I just never put
two and two together and saw what he was doing. (He's what Dave calls a 'natural'.)
I have really enjoyed
reading the psychological, evolutionary and sociological theories behind his ideas, too. Very insightful.
I'm
not sure I can put all this into effect... not sure I want to... but I did try a couple of things he suggests,
today. First, I chose to spend the day moving like James Bond would - slow, deliberate, always calm, always in
control. And second, I tried the eye contact thing. (I have read about that before, but never tried it
before.)
Wow! I was getting many times the amount of attention from women than I usually do today, and it was
all while standing right beside my girlfriend! No matter where I went, I got this blatantly interested attention
response from at least one female, whether she was a girl or a woman.
I had a lot of fun playing "Who's
dominant" with a fairly attractive young woman who must have been six nd a half feet tall, to my five foot eight.
What really astounded me was that I responded so naturally to her challenge, and ended up getting a lot of respect
body language from her before I walked out of sight.
These two things, so simple... but wow. What a
difference.
I should also probably mention that I was wearing about 3" of SOE on each cheek with a single spray
of Pherlure to the neck.
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