BJF
Version: The married individual is ultimately responsible for being faithful to his/her wife/husband.
Long-Winded Version:
As good of a point as you make...I'm going to disagree with you 100%. It is her fault.
Married women (or men, for that matter) get hit on all of the time. If they do something about it, it's their
fault. That's it. In this case,
she pursued
him...which means she would've pursued someone else if
he didn't take. G-dog has no responsibility to ensure the sanctity of her marriage...that's her responsibility.
He's just reaping the benefits of an obviously bad marriage (if she's such a horndog)...I would say that that
probably makes him a bad person and morally wrong (You're going to hell, adulterer!!!
Sorry, I couldn't
resist
As in
Seinfeld when George sleeps with a married woman, "You didn't commit adultery; I
did." I guess it's a matter of interpretation), but it's not his fault she cheated. She must be responsible for
her own actions. Unless he kidnapped her, put her in a basement, and raped her, she had all the power she needed to
stop it. The word "no" or the equivalent non-verbal message would've sufficed.
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