I am a 59 year old male

and I am trying to find a combo that work`s for people my age.
Yes I did a search, and it seems that old around

here is 35, I hope not that would mean I might as well give up.
I have edge jell pks., soe jell pks. , AE,

chikara,and perception to work with and I would like to get the 35 to 45 year old women to notice me, in a good way

lol.
Anyone with any advice that I did not find?