An Insane Situation

[belgareth]

I hate to be harsh but along

with agreeing with Swinger, Friendly and Koss, I think this woman is/has a real problem. She leaves you, and she has

to know it hurts, then demands that she bring her new boyfriend to live with you and her? At the least it's a

callous disregard for you and your feelings.

Run...fast and far! You don't need that in your life and I doubt

you want it either.

[Icarus]

On the other hand, if you can

survive this, you can survive (almost) anything....

Sure let them come and use their money (as you stated you

needed it) but then do your own thing when you get to NZ (great place, really friendly, better than OZ in my

opinion) leave them to their own devices.

I call this kinda stuff 'character building', but then that's

what people say to kids when they want them to do a difficult task that they dont personally want to do.



Use it as an opportunity to prove to her and yourself that you are over her.

Cheers, and I hope

it goes well for ya.

Steve

[Icarus]

ooohh.. or alternatively, go to

somewhere within Europe.

You need no visa (cuz you're a member of the EU) and life is good, and the flights

wont cost so much etc etc etc....

And to think many in britain want out of Europe. Bad call, I

think.

Steve