Originally Posted by JustPeachy
All of what you wrote above is TRUE
Peachy and great info! Self treating is difficult to do for men but almost impossible for women. Wayyy tooooo much
going on with women's hormone issues and it takes a real good Dr. to get to the heart of the problem. The point I
was trying to make was that all the ROMANCE in the world isn't going to do much good if there is an underlying
hormone/libido problem. It might even make things worse from a guilt trip point of view. If you get my meaning.
Here's the way I see things and please take into account that I'm a guy and a Pig! If everything is in balance
for a women hormonally, than sexual desire is going to be there, especially if she's involved in a loving,
committed relationship. All relationships have problems from time to time but if the women is healthy sexually then
sexual desire is going to be as big a part of her life as it is for a sexually healthy man. She's going to want to
have sex with her mate just as much if not more than her guy does. For some reason Elana comes to mind here again.
OTOH, most women are totally different then men when it comes to what turns them on and serious romance is the way
to most women's libido's. Holding hands, hugs, soft music, candle light, slow dances, great conversation with the
men doing all the listening and making the appropriate affirmative comment at just the right time. These are the
things that make for the big O for most women. Those and the ability of the man to "Lick the Box" properly.
That's the way I see things now that I'm older and wiser and almost ready to die but keep in mind that I'm a
man and I'm a Pig!
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