First of all its fine, and very
useful, to think about this kind of stuff now. Just make sure that when your actually interacting with people you
are much less "in your head" and are instead just flowing. If you start trying to micromanage your self like that
the chances are that she'll think you're uncomfortable (which you are, right?).
Even here:
You are thinking too much.I dont
want to make her uncomfortable by staring at her when im talking with her, so I usually look into her eyes when
talking then look down or to the side.
HOWEVER, a general rule is that you
should try to be the last person to break eye contact. Your probably worried that you're going to come across as
creepy or something, but again you're thinking too much. Subconsciously you already know when you've gone too far,
so just let things flow. It's GREAT that she makes a lot of eye contact because this is awesome for building and
manipulating sexual tension. Also, as Mobes points out to look down is *supposedly* an act of submission (NEVER good
if your a man in your average conversation, 99% of the time women want a dominant man to sleep with). After
reading that years ago I found myself breaking eye contact by looking up and too the side when remembering some
something or whatever. Does this make a big difference? No idea! But it feels right and I know that generally I'm
the dominant one in my interactions.
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