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I hear ya, but try to consider her point of view. She COULD get pregnant - no method is entirely fail proof. It\'s a reasonable question that deserves an honest answer. I don\'t see it as in any way indicative of an intent to deceive him.

<hr></blockquote>I didn\'t particularly say it was. I said it would be a red flag. Meaning a serious conversation is needed before the next sexual contact.

Your description of the conversation sounds about right to me.

\"Will you marry me if I get pregnant\" definately implies her preferences, tho. And it\'s important to note that the female has _all_ the power in the decision whether to carry to term and/or keep the baby. Legally, the male has no say whatsoever.