Not sure I'm getting this. You

like to lead and want to carry on being the lead where men are concerned?

You see I have a tendency to lead and

want to go the other way. If you want 'all eyes on me' go for something with copulins in it. Try PCC or EW. I

haven't tried EW yet, but PCC worked (in combination with others - see my other thread) for me. I could have had

my pick of men the night I wore it - I think :S !