How to tell a woman is interested in You - indicators of interest

[belgareth]

Well

said.


"get hits from women ranging from young teen girls to other antiques like myself."

Hey man, WHAT IS

UP WITH THAT? That has been happening to me too, young teenage girls trying to hit on me.

Two times now, one

time I saw a group of girls at a distance and wanted to find out how old they were, so I walked by them but then saw

they were in thier early to mid teens...then one of them says to me "Its a possibility" out loud. So Im

thinking...."whats a possibility"? I just ignored them ofcourse, dont want to be labeled a sex offender for the rest

of my life.

You know Im 49 years old, granted look a lot younger than my age but not past 35 or so....I dont get

it! Young teenage girls??? Hell Im probably older than their parents!!!


Weeeeiirrrrddddd!!! Not the first

time its happened, these other young teenage girls one time kept trying to get my attention and were going out of

their way to do it, all three waving at me, one shouts out "you're sweet", was kind of embarassing, being hit on

such young kids at my age!

I dont mind talking to them but Im just kind of wondering what they have in mind, not

sure, which is the reason why I ignore them and put them off. I would think that girls that young are too young to

even think about sex or dating.

Its weird man, maybe you can clue me in on this. Been asking around about it but

noone seems to have any answers, also think mentioning it is getting me in trouble.

Before I go on, I am

not advocating seducing teenage girls and would likely shoot or otherwise maim any older guy who tried with one of

my daughters or any of the other young girls that still hang out around my house.

With three daughters and no

sons I have been exposed to teenage girls far too much for my peace of mind but have learned a few things about

them.

The first is that teenage girls are starting to become sexual a lot younger than back in the stone age

when I was a teen.

The second is that they are a lot more mentally mature than teenage boys and often regard

them as a pain in the ass, at best.

The last is that age is not all that important to many of them. Neither is

baldness or looks. Perhaps they are looking for a daddy figure or have subconciously figured out that the social

emasculation of the male is an absurdity and want somebody who is a real man. I don't know the reasons only the

results.

In any case, take it as a compliment and move on. While a cute little thing might be tempting they are

far more trouble than they ever could be worth.

[jumprunner]

Before I go on, I am not advocating seducing teenage girls and would likely shoot or

otherwise maim any older guy who tried with one of my daughters or any of the other young girls that still hang out

around my house.

With three daughters and no sons I have been exposed to teenage girls far too much for my peace

of mind but have learned a few things about them.

The first is that teenage girls are starting to become sexual

a lot younger than back in the stone age when I was a teen.

The second is that they are a lot more mentally

mature than teenage boys and often regard them as a pain in the ass, at best.

The last is that age is not all

that important to many of them. Neither is baldness or looks. Perhaps they are looking for a daddy figure or have

subconciously figured out that the social emasculation of the male is an absurdity and want somebody who is a real

man. I don't know the reasons only the results.

In any case, take it as a compliment and move on. While a cute

little thing might be tempting they are far more trouble than they ever could be worth.

"
The

first is that teenage girls are starting to become sexual a lot younger than back in the stone age when I was a

teen. "


SHIT, MAN!!! Are you kidding???

No they are not tempting, what the hell am I going to do with a

little girl, I dont want any little girl I want a woman. I like little girls just fine BUT NOT LIKE THAT!!!! YUK!



No thats gross they dont need to become sexual at that age, somebody needs to do something about that. I never had

kids so I wouldnt mind taking a few young teenage girls out to an ice cream or something, but i sure as hell dont

want any of them comming on to me like that. It wouldnt be appreciated.

I dont think these kids are being raised

properly these days. The stone age...makes all the sense in the world to me, we should all go back to it.

[belgareth]

"
The

first is that teenage girls are starting to become sexual a lot younger than back in the stone age when I was a

teen. "


SHIT, MAN!!! Are you kidding???

No they are not tempting, what the hell am I going to do with a

little girl, I dont want any little girl I want a woman. I like little girls just fine BUT NOT LIKE THAT!!!! YUK!



No thats gross they dont need to become sexual at that age, somebody needs to do something about that. I never had

kids so I wouldnt mind taking a few young teenage girls out to an ice cream or something, but i sure as hell dont

want any of them comming on to me like that. It wouldnt be appreciated.

I dont think these kids are being raised

properly these days. The stone age...makes all the sense in the world to me, we should all go back to

it.

There's nothing to do to change it. They are maturing faster than before so we have to deal with it.

You are right about upbringing but even the best parents can't do more than advise and teach their children. If a

kid wants sex, they are going to get sex.

Having kids around the house is fun. I like kids a lot and have made

it a point to welcome my kids' friends to hang out here. There's several in my family room right now watching a

movie and gossiping. But a prudent man, in this society, stays in another room and away from them. Or at least makes

sure there are several in the room when he is there. You'd be amazed the things they talk about now days. They've

all known me for years so rarely worry about my being around and I hear a lot of their gossip. To say they shock me

is a mild understatement. Now, they are all legally adults but that is still a kid too me and I've known most of

them since they were in elementary school. To touch one of them would be more than a little disgusting to even

comtemplate.

I'm not tempted either. Yuck is a very good word.

[jumprunner]

There's nothing to do to change it. They are maturing faster than before so we have to

deal with it. You are right about upbringing but even the best parents can't do more than advise and teach their

children. If a kid wants sex, they are going to get sex.

Having kids around the house is fun. I like kids a lot

and have made it a point to welcome my kids' friends to hang out here. There's several in my family room right now

watching a movie and gossiping. But a prudent man, in this society, stays in another room and away from them. Or at

least makes sure there are several in the room when he is there. You'd be amazed the things they talk about now

days. They've all known me for years so rarely worry about my being around and I hear a lot of their gossip. To say

they shock me is a mild understatement. Now, they are all legally adults but that is still a kid too me and I've

known most of them since they were in elementary school. To touch one of them would be more than a little disgusting

to even comtemplate.

I'm not tempted either. Yuck is a very good word.

You know this

conversation just got me to thinking about this all over again. Its been on my mind on and off and bugging the shit

out of me.

The thing is, the 3 teenage girls I was talking about, they were trying so hard to get my attention,

constantly waving at me, ect. Then finally when I started out for the store I had to walk by them, they were all

starting at me then one of them says "you're sweet".

And I completely ignored them. I was thinking along the

lines of what you just said, a prudent man stays away from them, and that is what I was doing.

But these young

girls, trying so hard to get my attention and I just ignored them like they were nothing. I keep feeling really bad

about that, like I really did something to hurt thier feelings, and thats the last thing I wanted to do.

I just

feel really bad about doing that and I wish now I wouldnt have ignored them like that, its been on my mind alot

lately. Woundt have hurt for me to at least say hi or wave back at least, instead of hurting them like that. I just

thought I was doing the right thing, didnt know what their intentions were.

I know if their parents were aware

of it they might get pissed, but I dont ever want to hurt any young lady's feelings like that again. What the hell

does it hurt for me to at least go talk to them, I think I can be tactful enough if they do anything, by asking them

what they would want with a guy that is probably older than their parents, I think that would put things back in

prospective.

[jumprunner]

There's nothing to do to change it. They are maturing faster than before so we have to

deal with it. You are right about upbringing but even the best parents can't do more than advise and teach their

children. If a kid wants sex, they are going to get sex.

Having kids around the house is fun. I like kids a lot

and have made it a point to welcome my kids' friends to hang out here. There's several in my family room right now

watching a movie and gossiping. But a prudent man, in this society, stays in another room and away from them. Or at

least makes sure there are several in the room when he is there. You'd be amazed the things they talk about now

days. They've all known me for years so rarely worry about my being around and I hear a lot of their gossip. To say

they shock me is a mild understatement. Now, they are all legally adults but that is still a kid too me and I've

known most of them since they were in elementary school. To touch one of them would be more than a little disgusting

to even comtemplate.

I'm not tempted either. Yuck is a very good word.

Wanna hear something really

weird? There was this little girl about a year ago, her mom owned and ran a French restaurant and always bought her

to work with her because of no babysitter. Her dad went to work in Africa and was gone for a long time, so she

started befriending me and in a way made me her dad. Never had kids before and I love kids, felt pretty good cause I

felt like I had a little girl, she was 8 years old at the time.

I came in there every weekend to see her with

her mom there, she would run up to me and jump in my arms giving me a hug, then she would sit on my lap playing with

my laptop. The weird thing here, is that when she sat on my lap, she would keep straddling my leg, and I would have

to keep picking her up and putting her back on my lap.

She kept doing that, so one day I finally told her not to

sit like that, put her back on my lap and told her to sit properly. Her mom even had to keep correcting her, telling

her to pull down her dress, cross her legs, ect. Well, being a guy I didnt want to get too far into correcting a

little girl, so I kept telling her mom to correct her when she needed correcting, just think it was more appropriate

for her mom to do that.

So, I was telling my friend about that, told him she was only 8 years old, and he was

telling me yea, in California, girls learn these things pretty quickly, and Im like "but she's only 8"! I started

feeling like I was her dad and was really getting pissed about it, started making a fuss about it with her mom and

it went on.

Finally her dad came back to town so she went back to him and I stopped seeing her, didnt want to

abandon her but was glad her dad came back which sort of freed me as a way out of it.

That really pisses me off,

and I had been mouthing off about it, little girl that age being corrupted by a bunch of prissy stupid bullshit, I

was about getting ready to fuck someone up because of it. I dont know what who is telling these little girls but I

swear to God if I see anyone doing anything like that to a little girl I am going to pound them into hamburger I

dont care who it is, shit like that really bothers me. Kids should be bought up properly, not be told things of a

sexual nature, or how to be prissy, ect. Tell you at the time I was threatening to go to her school and punch

somebody out, that shit really ticked me off. A little girl, 8 years old, learning shit like that.